Merry Christmas Everyone! :)

I know Christmas is over already, Santa left already and i missed Santa this year! I'm crapping because its been so long since i blog! maybe just 3 days but its still feels looooooooooooooong!

Subang air always smells the best even though its polluted but its full of love! hahah! I just reached home from taiping and also Hatyai! oh yes i miss subang because all my friends are here! Do you all miss me? hehe!

Well, i'm suppose to upload and blog about Hatyai, but I feel like blogging about something else instead :) so, sabar my aunts and uncles! :)

Jealousy kills, agree?





I think jealousy exist in every kind of relationship. Jealousy is a dangerous emotion which is full with anger, rage, revenge, fear and insecurity. We experience this silent killer emotion since we were young. If we have brothers or sisters, or both, we often feel that " its not fair" especially when our parents scold us and not them when we feel we weren't in the wrong at all. " its also not fair" when our sibling have new toys or new things while we dont have. " its also not fair" when our siblings have a better grades than us and have better praise.

Due to all these small jealousy, it builds up to revenge. We then tend to go against our siblings. We tend to stop doing things for them. We tend to fight for the slightest thing. We tend to be more aggressive, comparative and lonely.


Same goes to couple relationships. We get jealousy easily when our boy/girl or man/woman talks to the opposite sex. Why? Because we feel insecure, we feel lonely. Jealousy will lead us to do a lot things we never in the right mind think we will ever do. Woman tend to obsessive and undergo depression. We will start hating people that we dont even know. We most of the time blame other women for stealing our men instead of the man himself. We will loose the meaning of love in the process. Women will do what ever it takes to get rid the another woman that she herself thinks its threatening her relationship. They will start putting their husband in the cage so the men will not runaway. What happen to "trust" ?

Will you feel happy if you so called "win" in caging your man? You will still feel insecure, because there are millions of woman out there. And this is when you calm down and control your mind instead of letting emotions control it, then you will realise that what you did out of jealousy is not worth it. It is pointless. We sometimes will regret it.

But it takes time to get over that period of depression and obsession period. To all the men, you all cannot fully blame the women for acting this way. We, girls, react this way because we feel insecure. We feel you guys do not love us anymore. All we girls want is love, care and security.

So, dont let jealousy control you. It will take you to a whole new level of life.


Stay tune for my hatyai trip's post! :) byeeeeeeeeeeeeee!