Monday, December 27, 2010 10:30 PM
Fear

Pain. Fear. Lost.

Dont be afraid of saying that you've lost, because then you will learn that you are stronger when you stand up again.
Fear. Even the word " Fear" itself already scare us, what more the meaning of it. We all have fear in us. Fear of losing. Fear of being forgotten. Fear of being unloved. Fear of disappointment. Fear of letting go..
When we fear of letting go, we will never move on. The world is so big and there is so much more great things ahead of us. Why do you want to stand on the same place unmoved forever? You will be the one losing out. We will not know how amazing how life could turn out to be if we dont move on. But then again, the fear, the fear in us, is always holding us back from doing the right things. Because we feel when we let go, when we move on, we will be forgotten, we will be unloved, we will be lost.
Its normal to feel that way, but its not good to live that way. Usually, we fear most of letting go because we fear we will not find someone that will love us as much as that someone did. We fear he or she might be happier without us. We fear we will never get back up without him or her. I used to say that people change, people leave. But now, i believe if you really love someone, let them go,coz if they really love you, they wont really leave after all. Their heart will remain the same at the end. Give yourself and he/she the chance to see the world the way they want to see it first. If he/she comeback after years of exploring and dating, then i guess thats true love.
Dont let fear conquer us. Dont live in fear. Live your life with joy, love, happiness and courage!
God will always provide us the way.
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