Do you think its fair when someone judge you after so called knowing you or spending time with you not long? Some say that, if this is the case means people can see you true colours after a while. But, how they know if thats the 'true colour'? I dont think its fair at all. especially when people use what they think of you as a bullet to shoot you. Whether if it is between an adult to a teenager or teenager to teenager or adult to adult. We are all still human beings with feelings no matter how old we are.

Maturity is not determined by someone's age. Judging someone without actually knowing them regardless relatives or friends just lowers your maturity level. Dont judge and take advantage, instead, accept and understand. If you have the good intentions to help someone to change for the better then do it so. Not gossiping behind their backs and disliking them.

Everyone have their own strengths and flaws. If your talking about people's flaws behind their back, dont forget that you have your own flaws too. Why not focus more on your own flaws and try to improve them before judging others? Because you will never know how a person is, what the person had gone through till you actually stop judging and start understanding them.

Sometimes we should not put all the fault on a person of how they turn up to be. Look deeper. Think further. There might be so many reasons and aspects on how someone can change or turn up not so good.